So someone new left a message on my blog. I looked at his blog and really liked something he said there--so the following quote is from TJ the Taurus from Canada--just please understand that I can understand where these words come from--I think I've felt them before myself. Thanks TJ!
"No one falls in love by choice, it is by chance.
No one stays in love by chance, it is by work.
No one falls out of love by chance, it is by choice."